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April 17, 2004



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Terry Barker

I agree that unsafe sex in pornography is very sad and deplorable, but I'm all for safe sex pornography, because I think it actually saves lives. I am speaking of lone masturbation, mutual masturbation or masturbation in groups, because sex with condoms is not entirely safe - condoms can break and do break often.

Firstly, masturbation is perfectly natural and healthy. What's unhealthy is denial of that fact.

Second, there are many biologically and sexually-charged people in the world, and masturbating to safe-sex porn serves as a healthy replacement to finding partners who they may know little or nothing about. You can know a person for years and even be married to them, and not know if they are cheating or are HIV positive. There are carriers who can test negative but still transmit the disease.

Thirdly, in a world with over-population and STD's, masturbation to safe-sex porn not only saves lives, but can help keep both the current population explosion and resulting famines/food shortages in check. Sure, there will always be plenty of people willing and able to have unsafe sex and children, but for those of us who want to live life more responsibility and joyfully, I say masturbate - for when you add your pleasure to the world, you increase the world's pleasure in total (to paraphrase Ghandi and Chris Aable).

Other quotes found at: http://www.masturbateproudly.com/

"I'm such a good lover because I practice a lot on my own."
-Woody Allen

"The good thing about masturbation is that you don't have to dress up for it."
-Truman Capote

"Masturbate proudly."
-Chris Aable

"The only thing about masturbation to be ashamed of, is doing it badly."
-Sigmund Freud

"Intercourse with a woman is sometimes a satisfactory substitute for masturbation. But it takes a lot of imagination to make it work."
-Karl Kraus

"We have reason to believe that man first walked upright to free his hands for masturbation."
-Lily Tomlin

Terry Barker

From sexinchrist.com (I'm not a Christian because I don't believe in ancient fairy tales just because they have been written and rewritten dozens of times, beginning nearly a century after Christ allegedly died, but for those who do:

Masturbation: God's Great Gift to Us

The subject of masturbation is the cause of much concern and confusion among Christians. Most of us are taught that masturbation is sinful or wrong, and many believe that the Bible actually forbids masturbation. The latter is simply untrue; masturbation is not even mentioned in the Bible. And when we consider the facts, it becomes clear that masturbation is not a sin, but rather a blessing from God that enables us to fully enjoy our bodies and can help us lead a more healthy spiritual life.

Masturbating for the Glory of God
Some people say that they feel guilty, shameful, or dirty after they masturbate, and so they conclude that masturbation must be a sin. This is just because most of us have been taught, often by misguided religious authorities, that our bodies are bad and anything relating to physical pleasure is sinful. This is simply not true, and this is not what God intended for us. God created our bodies, along with our capacity for sexual pleasure and orgasm. Masturbation is just a normal release of sexual energy, and if used properly, it can help keep us healthy physically and spiritually.

The Scripture tells us that our bodies are the temples of the Holy Spirit, and that everything that we do should glorify the Lord. While masturbation is not a sin, we must be careful to masturbate in a way that is respectful to our bodies, and respectful to God. Masturbation is a gift that we should not abuse. This means we should not masturbate to excess, or to the point where we injure ourselves. If you are masturbating until you are exhausted, or until your genitals are raw or bleeding, this is excessive, harmful, and not what God intended. If you masturbate compulsively to the point that it interferes with your work or your relationships with friends, family, and God, this is a problem. If you masturbate while indulging in impure thoughts (fantasizing about your neighbor’s wife, for example), this is also a misuse of God’s gift. Of course, this is not to say that masturbation in itself is wrong – simply that we must use masturbation in a way that is healthy and responsible.

Masturbation: God’s Gift to Us
Most discussions of masturbation don’t even touch on the multitude of ways that masturbating can contribute to our physical, emotional, and moral health. Here are just a few of the many ways that masturbation is beneficial:

* It prevents sexually transmitted diseases. Masturbation is the safest form of safe sex. You can’t catch or spread any STDs when you masturbate.

* It prevents unwanted pregnancies. By masturbating instead of having intercourse, couples – both married and unmarried – can avoid the dilemma of an unwanted or unplanned pregnancy. If birth control is not available, masturbation is a wise alternative to unprotected sex.

* It’s an alternative to premarital sex. Masturbation provides an alternative to intercourse before marriage. It allows both partners to keep their virginity intact for their wedding night.

* It’s an alternative to sinful behavior such as adultery. If a man or woman is tempted to indulge in adulterous sex, for example, masturbating is a much better alternative to committing a sin.

* It provides gratification if sex is unfulfilling. Many women do not experience orgasm during sexual intercourse, and some people are just unable to climax with a partner. In these cases, masturbation allows the experience of sexual fulfillment.

* It allows us to reap the health benefits of sexual release. Medical research shows that having regular orgasms can contribute to overall health in many ways. Having an orgasm releases physical tension and emotional stress, releases endorphins, and improves circulation. Studies also show that having regular ejaculations decreases the risk of prostate cancer in men. Masturbation allows us to enjoy these benefits whether or not we have a sexual partner.

* It enables us to enjoy our bodies and God’s gift of sexual pleasure. Most importantly, masturbation is a way for us to enjoy and celebrate our God-given sexuality. Sexual pleasure and orgasm are blessings from the Lord, and masturbation is one way we can experience them. Our bodies and our sexual organs were made to feel good; if we deny ourselves pleasure, we are refusing one of God’s gifts.

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